Have had a busy week so haven’t been able to come and play or visit others 'cose as well as my usual commitments to family and charity I have been busy in other ways: -
No rain and reasonable temperatures early on in the week meant I could get out in the moist garden (courtesy of some rain last week) and do some more tidying and weeding and then follow on with newspaper covering and mulching. so much done and so much more to do :) and :(
With the breezy days I was able to get loads of washing done and dried – ‘cept for the day it did actually rain and then it dried under the covered deck
I seem to have spent an extraordinary amount of time at my Aunt’s place emptying out cupboards, packing up some things to go elsewhere (like everyday linen, crockery and pots and pans) or washing it for when the chap from the auction house came to have a look. From the amount of things she has you wouldn’t believe she actually scaled down her belongings two years ago to move to this very small two-bedroom unit.
Settlement is a week Friday – May 22nd - so by then most of this will be a thing of the past, I have to say I feel quite guilty selling out from under her – well I’m not actually doing it, that ‘foul deed doer’ is her son and my other cousin here in Melbourne.
The thing is even tho she will never be able to live at home, she isn’t aware that all this is happening (the other two have POA so dealt with the paper work) and she hasn’t said anything when bits and pieces from her home have turned up in her room.
We are selling her life away and its sad, she had some beautiful things in her home and apart from those few bits and pieces and the few things family have asked for, her life and belongings will now belong to strangers.
I know we can’t take it with us but I do wish she had been mentally capable and able to understand what was happing and then having the chance to give it away herself.
Tomorrow is Mother’s Day here in Australia – this year I wont be lying in bed waiting for the cup of tea Dh brings on behalf of our children – this year I’ll be out in the cool morning air walking in the Mother’s Day Classic helping to raise money that will go towards Breast Cancer Research.
Happy Mother's Day to all the Mums here and around the world